How it works

When chatting gets too hot

Divorce Moderator stands in between. It keeps what actually needs to be said, drops the tone, and rewrites it as a neutral statement.

01

Get only polite and neutral messages

What reaches the other side is free of offence — only the matter: times, amounts, decisions, arrangements.

02

Write back free style

Say what you need to say, in your own words. You do not have to hold back or calm yourself down first.

03

Divorce Moderator will filter and rewrite

Insults, blame and provocation are removed while the practical information stays exactly as you wrote it.

04

The record is kept

Messages, proposals, agreements and timestamps remain documented.

Without and through
Without Divorce Moderator

“Tell that idiot that Thursday doesn't work because Maria has music and if he ever looked at the schedule he would know that.”

Through Divorce Moderator

Anastasia reports that Thursday does not work because Maria has a music lesson.

What you read

You read safe messages.

Everything that reaches you has already passed through the moderator — no insults, no blame, no provocation. Only the matter: times, amounts, decisions, arrangements.

What it is used for

Children

Coordinate schedules, handovers, school, healthcare, travel and expenses.

Money & property

Discuss payments, housing, belongings, vehicles, accounts and practical division of assets.

Divorce logistics

Handle documents, appointments, lawyers, deadlines and settlement proposals.

Agreements

Turn proposals into explicit accepted, declined or modified arrangements.

Documented communication

Maintain a chronological communication record.

Start a moderated conversation

Two participants, one private conversation space.

Divorce Moderator maintains a timestamped communication record designed to support reliable documentation. It is not a law firm, lawyer, court, arbitrator, emergency service, medical service or therapist.