How it works

You are not communicating directly.

Divorce Moderator is in between. It extracts the practical substance of what you wrote, removes unnecessary interpersonal conflict, and restates it neutrally in the third person.

01

Write naturally

Say what you need to say. You do not have to calm yourself down first.

02

Divorce Moderator moderates

Personal attacks and irrelevant conflict are removed while practical information remains.

03

The useful message is delivered

The other participant receives the neutral communication, not the raw message.

04

Keep a record

Messages, proposals, agreements and timestamps remain documented.

Without and through
Without Divorce Moderator

“Tell that idiot that Thursday doesn't work because Maria has music and if he ever looked at the schedule he would know that.”

Through Divorce Moderator

Anastasia reports that Thursday does not work because Maria has a music lesson.

What it is used for

Children

Coordinate schedules, handovers, school, healthcare, travel and expenses.

Money & property

Discuss payments, housing, belongings, vehicles, accounts and practical division of assets.

Divorce logistics

Handle documents, appointments, lawyers, deadlines and settlement proposals.

Agreements

Turn proposals into explicit accepted, declined or modified arrangements.

Documented communication

Maintain a chronological communication record.

Start a moderated conversation

Two participants, one private conversation space.

Divorce Moderator maintains a timestamped communication record designed to support reliable documentation. It is not a law firm, lawyer, court, arbitrator, emergency service, medical service or therapist.